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3:19 pm
August 3, 2009
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jewell
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pumpkin said:
jewell said:
pumpkin said:
What about the fact that Michael may have to be thought of as dead for his own safety, don't you think she would still say the same? I'm not trying to be argumentative just trying to look at all the possibilities to still believe………..
sure, if that is what you want to believe, then you should!
just please don't put all your hopes and emotions into it ….
and keep some perspective for the possibility that this may not be a hoax…
God I feel so silly saying this but it's not because I want to believe it – I have to believe it. I've maybe gone down a road too far over this psychologically and I'm finding it hard to turn round, but I can't accept that such a beautiful person inside and out has gone – for what? If the coroner or his family said he just died, it was heart failure – nothing odd about it – it just happened – which it does to some people .
I could accept that easier than thinking he has fallen foul of some arse inadequate doctor who happened to be just plain incompetent and accidentally killed one of the nicest people to walk this earth in my lifetime, or that he was murdered for whatever reason, but the fact that the coroner hasn't released the autopsy report to say it was just a normal death is eating at my soul, (yes I know there are people on here who'd say get a grip, you didn't know him). But everyone has to believe in what they want to, or need to as you say.
I totally agree with you pumpkin!
To lose such a beautiful soul at such an early age is bad enough…
but like you said , if some incompetent doctor took away his life makes it just gut wrenching!
and if that is the case, let's hope that the doctor at least does some jail time…
(((BIG HUG)) to you!
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3:19 pm
August 3, 2009
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mjfan
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Beat_iT said:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v…..re=related
MJ's families bahaviour and reaction – WEIRD!
but watch it yourself
The family looks sad to me.
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3:31 pm
August 3, 2009
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jewell
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mjfan said:
Beat_iT said:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v…..re=related
MJ's families bahaviour and reaction – WEIRD!
but watch it yourself
The family looks sad to me.
yes, they do look sad to me also…
but do this experiment…..
go look in the mirror and make a smirky forced smile….
now think about something so sad it hurts, like you are going to vomit…
there isn't that much difference in the two expressions, not in my face anyway! 
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3:48 pm
August 3, 2009
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pinkrose35
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jewell said:
I think that whatever proof you were given….
other than holding his dead body in your own arms …
you wouldn't believe anyway! LOL!
I mean katherine has now said “My son is dead” …..
what kind of mother would say that if it wasn't true?
What exactly do you guys want the jacksons to say to prove it to you?
just wondering?
I agree with you. Everybody is going to have to reach their own closure in their own way. If the coroner went on TV and showed the DC people would say it was a fake. If we were shown Michael in his casket, people would say it's a body double. If the Jackson's starting being emotional and showing their grief, people would say they were acting. Some people will probably always believe that he is alive. Our hearts will tell us when it is time to let go and when it does then we need to move and stop looking for answers that aren't there.
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12:56 am
August 4, 2009
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Beat_iT
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Post edited 5:58 pm – August 4, 2009 by Beat_iT
jewell said:
Beat_iT said:
i think the whole family's reaction and behaviour was too calm! i would cry so much as a mother,father,brother or a sister..if i knew that my baby -and he was SO GOOD! -had gone 
im more sad thinking mj could be dead..than the family!!!
Please don't judge her actions…
we can't say what is the correct way to grieve…
Losing a child is one of the hardest things to go through and it isn't natural…..
and denial is one of the first stages…
I know when my dad died.. I would lay in the closet floor sobbing so hard i would vomit…
but when others would ask how i was , i would say fine….and try to smile….
so to them, they thought i was okay, but i was nowhere near being ok.
We don't show the outside world our deepest sorrow, or you would fall apart.
i know that people react different.. and i would also understand if one of the family react like this.. but THE WHOLE FAMILY was so calm..NOBODY cried..and the kids looked bored to me at the memorial service…… hm……
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2:20 am
August 4, 2009
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pumpkin
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jewell said:
To lose such a beautiful soul at such an early age is bad enough…
but like you said , if some incompetent doctor took away his life makes it just gut wrenching!
and if that is the case, let's hope that the doctor at least does some jail time…
(((BIG HUG)) to you!
Thanks for that Jewell.
Here I am back on again this morning I can't help getting sucked in……………..
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