Michael Jackson Hoax Death

I am not calling anybody out,

but there are a few people on there that are “Attention Seekers”

These are people that claim they have information and get everyone excited,

yet never tell you anything…

then when anyone calls their bluff…

they get very defensive….

Here are some links about this behavior..

http://www.bullyonline.org/wor…..attent.htm

https://www.iranian.com/main/blog/moorche/what-internet-troll

This is very common on the internet and very sad.

Many times, they will also open other accounts and pretend to be someone else in order to look like they have followers, or opposition,

and to start more drama and feed their attention seeking needs…

I see many of you are very young, and being a mother of a teenage daughter,

I am worried that you are giving out too much personal info and believing in these people with all your heart…

Please everyone , use some good sense, don't give out too much info about yourselves,

and please don't believe everything that an “internet friend” tells you….

“”The need for attention

Human beings are social creatures and need social interaction, feedback, and validation of their worth. The emotionally mature person doesn't need to go hunting for these; they gain it naturally from their daily life, especially from their work and from stable relationships. Daniel Goleman calls emotional maturity emotional intelligence, or EQ; he believes, and I agree, that EQ is a much better indicator of a person's character and value than intelligence quotient, or IQ.

The emotionally immature person, however, has low levels of self-esteem and self-confidence and consequently feels insecure; to counter these feelings of insecurity they will spend a large proportion of their lives creating situations in which they become the centre of attention. It may be that the need for attention is inversely proportional to emotional maturity, therefore anyone indulging in attention-seeking behaviours is telling you how emotionally immature they are.

Attention-seeking behaviour is surprisingly common. Being the centre of attention alleviates feelings of insecurity and inadequacy but the relief is temporary as the underlying problem remains unaddressed: low self-confidence and low self-esteem, and consequent low levels of self-worth and self-love.

Insecure and emotionally immature people often exhibit bullying behaviours, especially manipulation and deception. These are necessary in order to obtain attention which would not otherwise be forthcoming. Bullies and harassers have the emotional age of a young child and will exhibit temper tantrums, deceit, lying and manipulation to avoid exposure of their true nature and to evade accountability and sanction. This page lists some of the most common tactics bullies and manipulators employ to gain attention for themselves.”"

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Yes, I agree with you Jewell..Very well said..xx

jewell said:

I also want to add…

just watch…

the attention seekers will post on here defensive thinking that i am talking about them…

hence more drama and attention!

I was just thinking the same thing…I have seen a few people come out and say 'if you're talking about me FINE I DON'T CARE YOU DON'T HAVE TO BELIEVE ME'..and it's like…uhm, chill out. they never said they were talking about you…haha I don't understand…why get so defensive, ya know? ah well.. I guess in a forum such as this we have to deal with people like that.